How to balance school, work, and social life

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Limara Schellenberg
Limara Schellenberg

Updated: Jun 10, 2025

In my final semester, I was pulling double duty: 18 credits, a part-time job at the campus café, and volunteering twice a week. One Friday night, I found myself writing an essay at a friend’s birthday dinner — in the corner of the living room, laptop on my knees. That’s when it hit me: I wasn’t doing it all. I was doing it all poorly.

Balancing school, work, and a personal life isn’t about squeezing more in. It’s about designing a week that gives each part of your life the space it deserves — without burning you out in the process. Here’s how I started doing just that.

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1. Map your non-negotiables first

My schedule isn’t just about classes and shifts. It’s about my priorities. So before building out a week, I block off the things I can’t — or don’t want to miss. For me, that includes lecture and lab times, my work shifts, time for physical activity, weekly catch-ups with friends or family, and at least one evening with zero plans. By anchoring those in first, everything else — study time, errands, project work — gets built around what truly matters.

2. Schedule social time like a real commitment

It was a game-changer to realize that social time isn’t optional — it’s essential. If I didn’t actively carve it out, it just wouldn’t happen. Now, I block it in my calendar, I protect that time just like I would a class or shift, and I do my best to stay screen-free while I’m with others. That shift helped me show up more fully — not just for friends, but for myself too.

3. Bundle tasks to avoid mental overload

Switching constantly between study, work, and life admin left me feeling scatterbrained. So I started grouping tasks that matched in energy or focus. Mornings became my “deep work” time for writing essays and major assignments. I designated a few hours a week for “admin mode” — emails, groceries, laundry. Evenings were best for lighter focus tasks like reviewing flashcards or watching lecture videos. This approach minimized the mental cost of switching gears — and gave me a better sense of control.

4. Use a calendar that works for you

Paper planners were easy to forget, so I moved to something that syncs across devices. I color-code by category — school, work, social — and review it daily. I started planning in 30- to 90-minute blocks instead of trying to fill whole days, and I added buffer zones for commutes or just breathing room. On Sundays I plan the week ahead, and on Fridays I reflect. Having everything visible made it easier to spot burnout before it hit.

5. Accept that balance isn’t static — it’s seasonal

Some weeks, school demanded nearly all of me. Other times, I leaned into work or said yes to more social invitations. I stopped chasing the idea of perfect balance and started making conscious weekly adjustments. Every Friday I’d ask: What took most of my energy this week? What felt missing? And what’s one thing I can shift next week, even if it’s just 10 percent? That reflection helped me make smarter trade-offs — and let go of the guilt.

Balance doesn’t mean equal. It means intentional. With a few changes to how I planned my week, I went from constantly stretched to (mostly) in control — and far more present in every area of my life.

What’s your go-to strategy for finding balance? Let’s keep the conversation going on LinkedIn — I’d love to hear your take.

If you’re juggling a packed schedule like I was, try using a tool like Doodle. It helped me simplify meeting planning, protect my personal time, and actually follow through on what I prioritized.

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